There is no doubt that all girls want to love and to be loved back. We all have always waited for our prince charming to come and take us on his white horse.
Sometimes we wait for so long, but our knight in shining armor doesn’t show up. But ladies, let’s stop here and think a little: Is love as easy as it seems? Well, I guess not! It takes two devoted loving people to have a working relationship.
In order to have a successful, lasting commitment you have to know what you are looking for exactly. So do you want to be just a regular girl or the one and lonely? It’s your decision to make.
Here are some tips that will surely help not only girls but also women of all ages.
1. Be truthful / Sincere
The core essence of any relationship is honesty and truthfulness. Be sincere with the person you will be involved with. Don’t tell him lies and don’t hide any secrets because once they are revealed, he will assume that you are lying from the beginning. So try to avoid all this mess and be truthful with him.
Leave the past to the past and start a new chapter of your life. Hence, be an open book for him: let him read you and understand you. And always try to share with your partner.
2. Commitment and trust
Commitment is very fundamental to any healthy true relationship. Be honest and committed to your partner. Don’t fool around with other guys.
Thus, try to commit yourself to one person. Build a strong, trusted relationship with your man: be there for him whenever he needs you and let him know that you always got his back. By doing so, he will really appreciate that and he will love you more. In addition, make time for one another and spend as long time together as possible. Do different activities.
Relationships are investments. So the more you invest in your relationship the more prosperous and successful it will be. Hence, be faithful, drop the masks and you will see how happier and more intimate you will be.
Communication is the master key in any relationship. It has saved lots of relationships. So always open a conversation with your man, bring different subjects get to know what he thinks, how he reacts to your discussion, get to know him deep inside (his needs, his fears, his future plans, his favorite food, sport, restaurant….), pierce into his heart and see what he has got for you.
Besides, Try to talk about different things and topics; talk even about the silliest things and don’t hesitate to bring any subject to discuss with him. Thus, you will be able to understand him more than before. Besides, try to have fun together, surprise him and do new stuff whenever you meet. Consequently, he will be eager and impatient to see you each time.
Men like women who have strong personalities. They find them so charming and mysterious. So always do your best to look confident and strong. Keep reminding yourself that you are unique and worth fighting for, that any man has to work hard to get you. Therefore, don’t let anybody make you feel down or worthless.
Be always the one in control. Remember to never settle down for less than you deserve and keep in mind that you are worthy to be loved and worthy enough to be kept. Hence, keep reminding yourself of that. You are a prize that he has to work so hard to earn.
So my dear, don’t be easy going, let him chase you and do his best to have you. In short, don’t even settle for a second-best and don’t lower your standards. And to be honest, men love hard to get women 😉
5. Be yourself
Some women if not all of them when they meet a guy they try hard to attract him. They do different things to make him interested. So, don’t waste your time trying to get someone to like you. Actually, don’t you ever change yourself and your priorities for the sake of anybody. Be yourself instead and don’t you ever try to impress the guy that you like.
Just act natural and be who you are because if he doesn’t like the real you then he doesn’t worth it. In fact, you are unique, special and any guy has to work hard to get you. Remember, my dear, you are a real catch for any guy 😉
Here’s the only rule you need to know: if a man loves you, he will do anything he can to keep you. Anything!
It has always been known that women have a sixth sense, a miraculous sense that tells them what’s right and what’s wrong, a sense that shows the unseen things as if they can predict what’s coming or they can feel things that are about to happen.
This sense is called “intuition”. So as it comes to relationships, women can definitely depend on their intuition. As a result, if your heart tells you that something’s wrong with the guy that you’re dating then listen to your heart and leave. Follow it.
Once you find the right man; the one you really want and need, you will know it.
7. Good looks
It’s well known that women give great attention to their looks and so do men; Men are visionary and the first thing they see in a woman is her appearance. So when you go out on a date always dress well not as a superstar just be simple and beautiful.
Therefore, pick clothes that reflect your personality and suit you better. Be charming, healthy and clean. And, everything will go the way you want it.
As for sex, it comes always after love so don’t jump in bed with any guy if you don’t have feelings for him. Therefore, don’t rush into the relationship and instead, build it up slowly. So, make sex your last priority and love your first one. In fact, focus first on what really matters; the guy’s personality and perspectives. And, believe me, if the guy really loves you, he will be patient and respect your decision.
So, dear ladies, this is what you need to know and the rest is up to you. So make sure that you choose right.